Thomas H. Brand 19/02/2024 Thomas H. Brand 19/02/2024

What do you do When Your Partner Goes Through a Breakup?

Polyamorous breakups are difficult. Things are going to change, but you have to remember this is not about you.

Thomas H. Brand 31/07/2023 Thomas H. Brand 31/07/2023

Should You Date Someone New to Polyamory?

Everyone needs to start their polyamory journey somewhere, but who takes on responsibility for teaching them?

Thomas H. Brand 10/04/2023 Thomas H. Brand 10/04/2023

How to Deal With Jealousy in Polyamory

What’s the trick to dealing with jealousy in polyamory? How do we go about combatting that nasty feeling that holds us back from experiencing the joys of compersion?

Thomas H. Brand 16/09/2022 Thomas H. Brand 16/09/2022

Dealing with Jealousy in Polyamory

I’ll let you into a little secret. Jealousy doesn’t have to rule your life. While we might not be able to avoid it, there’s a trick you can learn to dismantle the power it has over you.

Thomas H. Brand 06/07/2022 Thomas H. Brand 06/07/2022

How Do I Ask Out My Friend’s Girlfriend?

While it’s not a deal-breaker in polyamory, can you suppose ask out your friend's girlfriend when that friend is right there?

Thomas H. Brand 05/07/2022 Thomas H. Brand 05/07/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: Refusing Labels

While it's fine that someone may want to avoid using certain labels in polyamory, refusing to use any at all is a Polyamory Red Flag.

Thomas H. Brand 13/06/2022 Thomas H. Brand 13/06/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: Pushy/Pressurised Polyamory

There can be a fine line between encouraging someone to try something new and pressuring them into something they don't want to do. This is why you need to be aware of the Polyamory Red Flag of Pushy or Pressurised Polyamory.

Thomas H. Brand 06/06/2022 Thomas H. Brand 06/06/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: Pretend/Uncertain Polyamory

Sometimes, when you're certain about something, it can be difficult to see that other people don't feel the same way.

Thomas H. Brand 02/06/2022 Thomas H. Brand 02/06/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: One-Sided Polyamory

It doesn't matter why or how polyamory can become one-sided. All that matters is the Red Flag things are becoming toxic.

Thomas H. Brand 29/05/2022 Thomas H. Brand 29/05/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: Aggressive Fairness

While fairness between relationships seems like a no-brainer, it's very easy for this line of thinking to become toxic if you go about it the wrong way.