Helping you take those first steps on the journey to understanding ethical non-monogamy

What is polyamory?

Polyamory means different things to different people.

For me, it is the freedom of possibility. The freedom to know when you meet someone and make a connection, it has the space and freedom to develop to its natural conclusion.

But the big secret is polyamory and ethical non-monogamy is something you need to create for yourself. No two relationships are the same. No one else’s relationship model will ever suit you perfectly.

Whether you’re exploring ethical non-monogamy yourself or just want to learn more about it, Discovering Polyamory is a place you can begin your journey.

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Why Isn’t Non-Monogamy Working for Me?

If that question sounds familiar, you’re not alone, but you’re not going to be able to figure out the answer until you pin down the reasons (and they might not be what you think)

Review: “Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality” by Christopher Ryan & Cacilda Jethá

If monogamy is supposed to be humanity’s natural state, why do we historically find it so hard? But if it’s not, why have so many scientists claimed to have proven it is? Perhaps it’s time to address the way bias has informed anthropology for centuries, and consider that we might not understand relationships as well as we think we do.

The Art of the Relationship Check-In

It might feel strange at first, but regular active Check-Ins could be the key to saving your relationships.

Yes, You Could Be Polyamorous (Even If You Don’t Want To Be)

Every one of us is capable of exploring polyamory, and thinking you “couldn’t” is a very dangerous sign for your other relationships.

Is Compersion the Opposite of Jealousy?

Exploring polyamory doesn’t involve ridding ourselves of jealousy (because that’s not only impossible but also unnecessary)