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The Different Types of Polyamory
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Relationships Tom Brand 25/01/2025 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Relationships Tom Brand 25/01/2025

The Different Types of Polyamory

It’s vital to know the different types of polyamory because the reason you might believe polyamory doesn’t work might be because you simply don’t know there is more than one option available.

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You Don’t Have Fulfil All Your Partner’s Needs (And That’s Okay) 
Polyamory, Relationships, Dating Tom Brand 05/08/2024 Polyamory, Relationships, Dating Tom Brand 05/08/2024

You Don’t Have Fulfil All Your Partner’s Needs (And That’s Okay) 

Understanding and accepting you can’t provide everything your partner needs is not only liberating, but it might just save your relationship.

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Does Being Polyamorous Mean You Are Queer?
Tom Brand 10/06/2024 Tom Brand 10/06/2024

Does Being Polyamorous Mean You Are Queer?

When you're new to polyamory, it's important to learn the difference between queer practice and the queer community

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Yes, Women can be Polyamorous
Polyamory, Relationships, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Gender Tom Brand 22/01/2024 Polyamory, Relationships, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Gender Tom Brand 22/01/2024

Yes, Women can be Polyamorous

And what you're really saying when you claim otherwise 

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Should You Date Someone New to Polyamory?
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Dating, Common Questions about Polyamory Tom Brand 31/07/2023 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Dating, Common Questions about Polyamory Tom Brand 31/07/2023

Should You Date Someone New to Polyamory?

Everyone needs to start their polyamory journey somewhere, but who takes on responsibility for teaching them?

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What is Parallel Polyamory?
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Definitions Tom Brand 13/03/2023 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Definitions Tom Brand 13/03/2023

What is Parallel Polyamory?

While some people love the idea of combining their polycules into one big happy family (often known as Kitchen Table Polyamory), others prefer to keep each relationship as a separate entity where their partners know about each other but have no desire to spend time together as a unit. This is called "Parallel Polyamory".

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How Do I Ask Out My Friend’s Girlfriend?
Polyamory, Relationships, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Common Questions about Polyamory Tom Brand 06/07/2022 Polyamory, Relationships, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Common Questions about Polyamory Tom Brand 06/07/2022

How Do I Ask Out My Friend’s Girlfriend?

While it’s not a deal-breaker in polyamory, can you suppose ask out your friend's girlfriend when that friend is right there?

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Is Monogamy Always Toxic?
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Relationships Thomas H. Brand 15/05/2022 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Relationships Thomas H. Brand 15/05/2022

Is Monogamy Always Toxic?

Does monogamy’s history mean it can never be anything other than a tool of the Patriarchy?

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Everyone Wanted Her, But No One Wanted Me
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 26/04/2022 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 26/04/2022

Everyone Wanted Her, But No One Wanted Me

If only I’d known this was the most difficult part of being non-monogamous

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“Rules” vs “Agreements” in Polyamorous Relationships
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 15/04/2022 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 15/04/2022

“Rules” vs “Agreements” in Polyamorous Relationships

You should avoid hurting your partner because you don't want to, not because you can't.

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Do I Have To Make Friends With My Metamour?
Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 23/03/2022 Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 23/03/2022

Do I Have To Make Friends With My Metamour?

How close should you be with your partner’s other partner?

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6 Relationship Models You Need to Know
Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 14/03/2022 Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 14/03/2022

6 Relationship Models You Need to Know

There is no “right” way to create a polyamorous relationship, so let explore some of the many different options available.

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Does Monogamy Even Exist?
Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 17/02/2022 Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 17/02/2022

Does Monogamy Even Exist?

It might be time to change the way we define relationships and step away from traditional ideas.

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Polyamory Week 2022 - We are all polyamorous
Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2022 Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - We are all polyamorous

And today, for our last post, I wanted to talk about one of the most universal lessons I've taken on board: the fact we are all polyamorous.

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What Exactly is Couple Privilege?
Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 16/12/2021 Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 16/12/2021

What Exactly is Couple Privilege?

How does it happen, and how do we fight it?

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The Lessons Everyone Can Learn From Polyamory
Polyamory, Education, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 20/05/2021 Polyamory, Education, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 20/05/2021

The Lessons Everyone Can Learn From Polyamory

You might not want to try it yourself, but there’s still something to learn.

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No, You Can’t Do Polyamory “Wrong”
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 18/05/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 18/05/2021

No, You Can’t Do Polyamory “Wrong”

Stop worrying about following templates and embrace your own needs.

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How Important Is The Reason We’re Polyamorous?
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 12/05/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 12/05/2021

How Important Is The Reason We’re Polyamorous?

Because if polyamory is something we’re born as, then suddenly Choice vs. Nature becomes a much deeper discussion than we thought.

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5 Benefits Of Polyamory (That You Didn’t Expect)
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Benefits Thomas H. Brand 04/05/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Benefits Thomas H. Brand 04/05/2021

5 Benefits Of Polyamory (That You Didn’t Expect)

Whatever led you to polyamory, I believe you are going to find that the most rewarding and satisfying things you will find are not what you were expecting.

And so here are 5 things I have gained from polyamory that I never saw coming.

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10 Words You Should Know Coming Into Polyamory
Definitions, Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 30/04/2021 Definitions, Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 30/04/2021

10 Words You Should Know Coming Into Polyamory

Coming into a new community can be confusing when you don’t know the terminology everyone is using. So here are 10 words you should know going in.

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