Tom Brand 24/10/2023 Tom Brand 24/10/2023

What is “Polybombing”?

There is a difference between "polybombing" and "dropping the poly bomb", and it's important to know which is which.

Tom Brand 25/09/2023 Tom Brand 25/09/2023

What is a One Penis Policy, And Why is it Bad?

Believe it or not, there is a difference between a One Penis Policy and a relationship dynamic with only one penis.

Tom Brand 05/07/2022 Tom Brand 05/07/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: Refusing Labels

While it's fine that someone may want to avoid using certain labels in polyamory, refusing to use any at all is a Polyamory Red Flag.

Tom Brand 13/06/2022 Tom Brand 13/06/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: Pushy/Pressurised Polyamory

There can be a fine line between encouraging someone to try something new and pressuring them into something they don't want to do. This is why you need to be aware of the Polyamory Red Flag of Pushy or Pressurised Polyamory.

Tom Brand 06/06/2022 Tom Brand 06/06/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: Pretend/Uncertain Polyamory

Sometimes, when you're certain about something, it can be difficult to see that other people don't feel the same way.

Tom Brand 02/06/2022 Tom Brand 02/06/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: One-Sided Polyamory

It doesn't matter why or how polyamory can become one-sided. All that matters is the Red Flag things are becoming toxic.

Tom Brand 29/05/2022 Tom Brand 29/05/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: Aggressive Fairness

While fairness between relationships seems like a no-brainer, it's very easy for this line of thinking to become toxic if you go about it the wrong way.

Tom Brand 10/04/2022 Tom Brand 10/04/2022

6 Green Flags in Polyamory

How to tell if someone is ready for polyamory, and has your best interests in mind

Tom Brand 14/07/2021 Tom Brand 14/07/2021

8 (More) Common Misconceptions About Polyamory

Continuing to disabuse your of the misconceptions you didn’t know you had

Tom Brand 09/05/2021 Tom Brand 09/05/2021

8 Common Misconceptions About Polyamory

It’s time to disabuse yourself of the misconceptions you didn’t know you had.

Tom Brand 23/02/2021 Tom Brand 23/02/2021

Red Flags We Need To Recognise in Polyamory

So you’ve decided that polyamory is for you. Life is good. Except, of course, when the people you meet either don’t know what they’re doing or just don’t care.

Tom Brand 13/02/2021 Tom Brand 13/02/2021

Polyamory Week 2021: Red Flags

What are the most common red flags in polyamory? Because being polyamorous doesn’t mean you can avoid getting hurt in relationships.

Tom Brand 12/02/2021 Tom Brand 12/02/2021

Polyamory Week 2021: The People Who Pick Sides

Neither Polyamory nor Monogamy is inherently better than the other, and some people need to stop seeing it as a battle that needs to be fought.